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Dive into the fascinating world of human desire, pleasure, and intimacy. Join us as we discuss the ins and outs of sex and sexuality with experts, share personal stories, and explore the diverse facets of human connections. Get ready for thought-provoking conversations, empowering insights, and a healthy dose of curiosity as we navigate the beautiful and complex realms of sex and sexuality.​ The Law of Sex and Sexuality is your guide to a fulfilling, inclusive, and informed understanding of sex and sexuality. Tune in each week as we unravel the mysteries, debunk myths, and celebrate the beauty of this integral part of the human experience.  Get ready to expand your knowledge, ignite your curiosity, and embark on a transformative journey that will reshape your understanding of sex and sexuality. Let's unravel the secrets together.

S1:E9: BDSM as a Sexual Orientation - 

The exploration of sexual orientations and identities has grown exponentially over the years, allowing people to explore their personal sexual preferences with increased acceptance deeply. BDSM, an initialism for bondage, domination, submission, and masochism, is one such realm within the sexual orientation landscape. Often misunderstood or stereotyped, BDSM is about a consensual exchange of power and trust.


Is BDSM a sexual orientation? Currently, academic literature and legal definitions do not readily classify it as such. Sexual orientation is traditionally determined by the gender one is attracted to. However, considering how integral BDSM can be to some individuals' sexual and romantic lives, some argue for its recognition within the scope of sexual orientation.

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S1:E8: SEX PARTIES - Everything You Need Know

Listener discretion is advised as we discuss adult themes and potentially challenging topics. This episode is not intended to shame or judge anyone's sexual preferences but instead to promote understanding and discussion of diverse sexual interests.

This week, L J Louis aroused our intellectual curiosity to help us understand the intricacy of Sex Parties. Erotic Parties are often safer than frat parties; She explained why. Truly an educational and eye-opening episode on erotic parties. 

S1:E7: Unmasking Urophilia, aka Golden Shower Fetish

Welcome to another intriguing episode of The Law of Sex and Sexuality. L J Louis is delving into the misunderstood world of urophilia, also known as "watersports" or "golden showers". 

Urophilia, aka golden showers, is a form of sexual fetishism centred around a fascination with urine, which has often been stigmatised and misunderstood in both the public eye and among mental health professionals. This episode aims to peel back the layers of stigma and shed some light on the people who engage in this sexual activity.

Join us as we strive to educate, understand, and maybe even help you or someone else feel less alone in their particular preference. Remember, as long we practice safe, consensual, and respectful behaviours, there is a rich diversity in human sexual expression to be explored and understood. 

Listener discretion is advised as we discuss adult themes and potentially challenging topics. This episode is not intended to shame or judge anyone's sexual preferences but to promote understanding and discussion of diverse sexual interests.

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S1:E6: Polyfidelity: Sexually Faithful To Many

In this thought-provoking episode, L J Louis dives deep into polyfidelity relationships, exploring these intimate connections' intricacies and unique dynamics. Join us as we unravel the layers of polyfidelity, shedding light on the joys, challenges, and transformative power of these non-monogamous partnerships. L J starts by defining polyfidelity, explaining how it differs from other forms of polyamory. She discusses the significance of consent, negotiation, and clear agreements within these relationships. The advantages and disadvantages of practising polyfidelity from a legal standpoint and the challenges must first be overcome before this practice can be successful. 
Throughout the episode, we strive to challenge common misconceptions surrounding polyfidelity, ensuring that listeners gain a greater understanding and appreciation for the potential benefits and rewards of engaging in such intimate bonds. We encourage listeners to explore the depths of their desires and approach non-monogamy with an open mind. This conversation will open your world to a new heightened awareness. 

S1:E5: Shibari: The Sexual Art of Bonding Body and Soul

In this podcast episode, L J explores the captivating world of Shibari. This ancient Japanese art form intertwines beauty, sensuality, and spiritual connection. Join us as we dive deep into the intriguing practice of Shibari, uncovering its origins, techniques, and the transformative experiences it can invite.

L J begins with an introduction to the history and philosophy behind Shibari, tracing its roots back to traditional Japanese rope bondage. She explores how Shibari has evolved from its historical context to its modern-day interpretation as an artistic expression and means of intimate connection.

As she delves into the techniques, she unravels the intricate artistry of Shibari. She discusses various knots, patterns, and placements, highlighting the importance of communication, trust, and consent between the rope top and bottom and some legal implications.

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S1:E4: The Law of Cuckolding

Cuckolding is more complex, with many psychological, social, spiritual and legal implications. Whether you're curious about cuckolding, actively engaged in a cuckolding relationship, or simply intrigued by the psychological aspects of alternative relationships, this podcast is designed to provide you with a comprehensive understanding of cuckolding. The hosts provide a safe and non-judgmental space to discuss communication, consent, jealousy, legal implications, and the boundaries within cuckolding relationships. Through thought-provoking conversations, the podcast aims to challenge societal norms, debunk misconceptions, and encourage listeners to explore their desires and curiosities in a healthy and consensual way.

S1:E3: Embracing the Power and Beauty of Submissive Partnership

The episode that boldly explores the multifaceted world of submissive partnerships. Join L J as she dives deep into the intricacies, dynamics, and transformative power of embracing a submissive role in relationships.
L J Louis delves into the depths of submission, unpacking the psychological, emotional, legal and physical aspects of being a submissive partner.

Whether you're new to submission, curious about exploring your submissive desires, or seeking to deepen your understanding of submissive dynamics, The Law of Sex and Sexuality is your guide to navigating the complexities of this unique role. Join us as we celebrate the strength and empowerment found in submission and encourage listeners to embrace their authentic selves within consensual power exchange relationships and to understand the implications of submission.

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S1:E1: Mastering Dominance

This episode is a space free from judgment and stigmatisation, where we invite listeners to challenge preconceived notions and discover the profound connection and personal growth that can be found within the dominant role.

From discussing the foundations of trust and communication to exploring the psychological, social, legal and emotional dynamics at play, our aim is to provide valuable insights and foster a deeper understanding of this fascinating world of dominant and master dynamic in the bedroom and the boardroom.

We aim to foster open conversations, promote healthy relationships, and provide valuable resources for individuals exploring or embracing their own dominant identities.

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